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I hear many bishops are arguing that the forthcoming welfare reforms limiting benefits to a maximum of £500 per weeks will lead to excessive poverty and children will suffer the most.They are clearly very much against this cap and want the government to scrap these plans. But in all seriousness can the country really afford unlimited benefits to families with 6,7,8 and even more children in the household? I don't think we can and unlimited benefits will never motivate parents to go out there and work for a living. After all £500 equates to £26 000 per year tax free subsidised income from the taxpayer.We need to get tough and now.
How many people in this Country work their butts off and don't receive £26,000 free. The Country cannot afford to KEEP these families and their many children. If we all had as many there would be a world shortage of food. Let the parents feed their own children and get out of their pits and earn the money like the rest of us have had to do and are doing. Many of my family don't earn anything like that amount but don't ask for help. Like you say creativesaver they need great motivation. Lazy and greedy people they are. Sorry you've touched a raw nerve today and it drives me mad how these people are getting away with it. The
longer they go on in this way the situation will never be dealt with.
Oh, these sort of questions are so difficult to answer, and I'm so glad I'm not in government trying to strike the right balance.
On the one hand, I completely agree with Sabre. I have worked and contributed all my life and never received a penny in benefits except for six weeks in the 1980's when I was made redundant. I quickly found another job, albeit on about a quarter of the salary I had been earning; it would have been easy just to sit back and live off the state - without the expenses associated with going to work I would probably have been better off!
But every attempt to end the 'something for nothing' culture and clamp down on the scroungers will inevitably hurt some vulnerable people who don't deserve to be hurt. I'm thinking of children here; yes I deplore the people who have large families and make no attemt to work to support them, but those kids didn't ask to be born. The really sad thing is that they will most likely grow up expecting the state to support them and the whole rotten cycle will continue.
I wish I knew the answer to it. The best I can think of is a system that would allow the state to feed and clothe vulnerable children without giving their hapless parents a penny to lie in their pits all day.
That's a big argument for adoption and fostering. There are plenty of good, caring people earning enough to look after a child who want but can't have one of their own.
That's a very interesting slant on it, G-Man. Sadly, I suspect that if you suggested it to the benefit scroungers most of them would object strongly to their 'meal tickets' being taken away.
£500 in benefits is more than enough there are working adults in my area that dont get £200 a week the cap should be a lot lower than £500 and these scroungers made to work for there money.
Couldn't agree more with all of you my friends here regarding this touchy issue.
£26.000!I know of many people out there doing an honest days work not coming close to that amount, it is indeed scandalous.
The average wage here is meant to be £17.5k, but a lot earn much much less than that. Where's the incentive to get back to work?
Too true!
Iheard this on the radio yesterday and it made me so cross - to REDUCE benefits to a capped £500 per week. Grrrrr.... with our child tax credit for ONE child, and both of us working full time, we don't even earn £500 per week - so does that mean we will get a benefit top-up to the £500 per week mark. No?!?! I thought not!!!
It makes me SO mad, that because we work hard, and saved to be able to get a mortgage so we 'own' our home, we are not entitled to most benefits anyway. And we just can't afford to have anther baby at the moment, not that we wouldn't like one. So for people to sit around doing nothing and getting £500 per week - it is ridiculous!!
Perhaps there should be a maximum number of children that you are entitled to claim for - not for families who already have the children, but for those who are thinking of having more to get more benefits? If you are not working and are already claiming benefits to provide for your child/ren, then why should you be entitled to have any more?!?!?
Sorry for the rant!
Excellent rant, you go for it YM. You're only saying what most of us feel, well done.
Your right a lot of them produce children in order to increase the benefits they get which in a lot of cases goes on fags and beer.
Ha ha Sabre - guess your 'younger person' is from my other comment on the rudeness discussion! But thank you :) When I am 30 in April do you think I will still be classed as younger person :p and NO, I will not be spending over £30 sending you all cakes for my birthday LOL!
I really agree. Completely understandable rant!
I couldn't believe it was being *reduced* to that level! I honestly thought it was hard to live on benefits when I'd actually be about as well off not working as I am working! Plus with not having to go to work, I'd get to finish all those videogames and books I don't have time to enjoy :)
They interviewed people on the local radio the other day - they started off by saying there were no jobs in the area, then as the interviews became apparent it became more and more obvious that there were jobs, but it wasn't the sort of work they wanted to do, or it paid less than being on benefits! I don't think anyone would deny benefits to people who really need it, but no one wants to support sluggards languishing about while we all work our socks off.
These children are not suffering and will not suffer limiting the benefeits to £500 a week!!! These children will suffer from not knowing the value for money as their parents will not have done a hard day's work in their lives!!! I am 37 and have a 14yr and have been on my own for 12yrs. I have raised my daughter up single handle ever since and it never stopped me going out to work in fact i had two jobs so i could get my own mortgage!! I never had a penny for childcare i had to pay for a private nursery never got childcare fees then! So many took the easy route and stay at home and get benefits. It's not the way i was brought up. I teach my daughter to have a good work ethic and she in fact works in oxfam. I have my own business and work now around my daughter while she at school and after school activities. I certainly feel it has paid off as i have a good standard of living and go on regular holidays and own a nice car etc. I have encouraged my daughter to work hard in school to achieve what she wants in life. How can these parents encourage or motivate their children! I feel sorry for those children as they probably will leave school with nothing and go on benefits themselves!! I would never in a million years swap my life to be on benefits some cases are genuine i'm sure i'm not criticising them all but the majority are at it as they say!!!
Exactly serena! Bring your kids up to respect what they have, and where it has come from. And to have more respect for themselves.
You're a credit to your family Serena, they must be deservedly proud of you as you are of them.
Well said, Serena.
Well said Serene 1.
To earn £500 per week you'd have to be in a job paying a salary of around £33,500 - I thought that the average salary in the UK was around £26,000 so I would have thought that £500 a week in benefits would be plenty to comfortably support your family.
The average salary is now a smidgeon over £24,000 as it's fallen due to pay cuts and redundancies!
If people on benefits get all that money because they have not used contraception and have got all those children why do so many people object to pensioners getting their meagre pensions and a bit of fuel allowance? Somehow it does not balance the books. So myself, a British citizen gets £105. per week after working all my life and a large family who don't work and probably never have worked gets over £500/£700 per week. Where is the justice in that because I simply don't know the answer.
Well hello again everyone .... I just thought I would come in here and put my bit in ( as the actress said to the bishop .... ).
I suspect that the government is aiming for rationalisation of the benefit system here until ultimately the 'universal credit' system takes over when every claimant will have their overall handouts capped by design.
The benefit system is essentially a way to redistribute wealth and edge poverty out of the door. But the whole system has never been subject to effective 'targetting' and as a result we have millions on benefits that they simply never want to give up. I have seen an Incapacity Benefit Claimant this week been assessed on a 'back to work' assessment as 'fighting fit' after five years of never having to work. She is traumatised at the very thought. As a nation, we have been the author of our own misfortune by doling free money out on a largely uncontrolled basis until someone actually realises what it is costing the country. The bishops therefore have it badly wrong. Poverty is in no way restricted to the benefit class, it is universally ingrained in the happily employed as well.
But getting tough, which I wholeheartedly endorse, brings its own problems. Getting people off benefits is an invitation back into gainful employment and self sufficiency. But the work they all so badly need to be directed towards is sadly lacking and will continue to do so. We are facing a revolution in this country, if not globally, as to how income and work is generated. Frankly, I do not think full and gainful employment will ever exist again. WE are all victims of fast paced technology and too much leisure time. Factor in unending and uncontrolled corporate greed and you have a recipe for financial lunacy.
So by all means cap benefits in preparation for the coming of the universal credit but also tackle inflation and corporate greed. Strive for a level playing field where people on low incomes and reduced benefits can begin to exist in some way. Tackle and legislate on landlords and controlled and fair rents ... everyone deserves a roof over their head but landlords' greed is running to excess. The only way to reduce the welfare budget is to make life affordable for everyone, not just the idle rich!
It's enough to make Harry Monk toss in his grave!
Nice to see you all again .... x
Well, Snoops, I was going to put my point on CS's question, but I'm just SO pleased to see you back...that I've completely forgotten what I was going to say! Welcome back, Snoops! You've been very sorely missed! :-)
Oh my word Snoopy, hello, are you ok? It's so good to see you back xxxxxxxx
Oh and like Fruity I've completely lost my thread here, how careless of me.
As for that Hairy Monk, well.....
Hello old friend, I'm so pleased to see you back putting your bit in! You have indeed been sorely missed.
Feline xxxxxx
Lol yes Feline we all like it when Snoopy 'puts his bit in'. Very satisfying.
Great to see you back again Snoopy :)
Our magnetic personalities you just can't keep away hee hee.
A big welcome back dear friend Snoopy we've all missed you so much. Now you can reply to my "pussy" cat posting and we can have some fun x
Hello again snoopy, nice to see you again
Welcome back! And I wholeheartedly agree.
Erm, whoever Harry Monk is...
G-Man ... about Harry Monk ... he is the great institutionalised British 'hand shaker' and with benevolent tendencies, he always crosses your palm with a little something. Ask the ladies on here, they all warm to him.
Thank you one and all for your comments! I was actually sitting in the bath, playing with my loofah when it suddenly struck me ... I need some stimulation! And where else but this forum?
Just so pleased to have you back Snoopy.
Aah yes the loofah, that well known scrubber, always good to have one handy.
Yes, I felt like an eighteen year old when I woke up this morning, trouble is I couldn't find one.
It's amazing how quick the tone of the forum has changed Snoopy dear - for the best I can tell you. I need a good laugh at the moment and the thought of you sitting on your loofah has tears running down my face. Don't get it stuck though will you especially if you are on your own!!!!!!x
Lillie you are a naughty girl fancy encouraging Snoopy in his antics. You make a good double act and should be on the stage. You must be feeling good and frisky Snoopy if you fancy an eighteen year old. Even I couldn't manage one of those - or could I ?
Playing with your loofah wasn't stimulation enough?
There you go again, G-Man! Playing with loofah stimulation...
I'm so sick of the bashing of anyone on benefits gets - like anyone getting benefit is living the high life at the expense of those who are working.
Let me tell you it is no picnic! I count every penny, and struggle enormously to afford even food - incapacity benefit means you have to pay towards yr rent, council tax, yr sight tests and glasses/contact lenses, yr medical prescriptions, plus pay all your other bills.
I'm also not entitled to ANY budgeting loan/crisis loan (which you can still get if you are on other benefits or a combination of incapacity and say income support) so if I need essential furniture like a bed, cooker etc then there is no help out there atall.
Instead why are not the BIG high end companies being pursued for tax evasion, or for instance all those members of parliament not being asked to give back the thousands of pounds they took of tax money in their unadulterated greed to gain even more money on top of the enormous amount of money they already had!
Why are they not being asked to give back their second houses, when they already had one house - it took me nearly 4 years to get somewhere to live after I was illegally evicted, became homeless and went through a total nightmare of a time which nearly broke me.
They then can sell these houses for an enormous profit - does the tax paying public get any of that money back when its their money thats bought them these houses in the first place? NO!
Has anyone even voiced and or attempted to do to get this money back? NO!
What justification is there for them to buy a second house at the tax payers expense? NONE!
Why is not the tax department not being pursued to sort themselves out - particulary in the context of pursuing companies who have NOT being paying their taxes - are you all aware that it has been estimated that at least £40 million a year upwards is owed to this country - think on that!
If anyone on benefit did what both the tax evading companies do and the MP's have done, theyd been in jail by now and LOSE EVERYTHING!
Instead just one or 2 MP's have been done by the courts and now its all gone quiet, so the rest have gotton away with it!
Like you I am on incapacity benefits that are means tested and cut to £20 a week because I worked and bought a pension.Having paid into the system for 40 years and then be came disabled due to accident.Not getting out anywhere near what I paid in.Government legalised robbery.Rant over.lol
I don't think anyone's saying those who are on incapacity or those who care for them should be penalised - it's the healthy ones who don't want to work most of object to!
Are any of you aware that people for instance, who are crippled, are amputees etc, are being asked to get out of their wheelchairs and walk/move on their stumps, and being declared 'fit for work!'
Are any of you aware that the private company which is employed by the goverment - called Atos - is actually paid £100 for each time they fail a client.
Atos has been severely critised in parliment itself.
Are you aware that your benefits can get cut for the most flimiest of reasons.
Are you aware of the enormous fear, panic etc that one lives under in connection to all of this.
Take a look on www.benefitsandwork.com or .co.uk to get an idea of the real picture of what life is like on the dole, before you start to critcize what you don't really have a true idea of!
I think it's ridiculous. It's like the plans to reward GPs for *not* referring patients to consultants!
Its always easy to attack and scapegoat those who are vulnerable in times of economic downturn - rather like all them bloody foreigners coming over here to take out jobs!
Funny theres never a mention of that when the econmony is good
Hi Seaspray ... there is a lot of sense in what you say and I agree, unless you are close to someone on benefits and who does remain vulnerable because of it, then it is difficult to see the bigger picture. However, there will always be people who love the blanket security of living off benefits and there will always be people who have no option. The government has therefore to be seen to be sensitive in this area and ensure that all benefits are targetted with the right of appeal always on hand where people may feel they face discrimination.
I have indeed seen people have a complete breakdown when they lose benefits. And it is hard to balance sensitivity versus financial constrainst at times. My late wife suffered from MS and was on incapacity benefit for some 14 years until she sadly passed away from the awful disease. Every time I had to complete a 19 page reviewal form or accompany her when the DWP made a visit, my heart would miss a beat and at times the stress was unbearable.
Life is hard and everyone can feel or be a victim at times. And it is abhorrent that certain people do 'engineer' their benefits claims to excess and these are the people that need to be targetted, not the ill, sick and vulnerable. So I am with you on that one.
And as for Atos wopping a £100 a fail ... that is certainly something the government needs to stand up and explain.
No-one can truly 'live' off benefits - thats one point!
The other is that the government doesn't care who is vulnerable and who is not! Just as long as they can kick you off the list - and then ergo show politically that 'oh look how good we are - we've managed to lower the unemployment total.
Its about figures and numbers and politics - nothing else.
There are quite a few in my area doing very nicely on benefits and pulling in more than working people can achieve.
Seaspray, thousands of people are 'living off benefits'.
On what facts do you base this sweeping statement?
Hi seaspray. I sympathise deeply with people who have got legitimate reasons for claiming benefits, especially those who have terrible injuries and long term incurable diseases. It should be made so much easier for them to be assessed and given all the benefits they are entitld to to make life a bit more bearable as they have enough suffering already without making it worse for them. I have first hand knowledge of this as I was my first husband's carer for a long time and it was only about four week's before he died that I was given carer's allowance. Don't get me wrong I would have done anything for him but with having to work part time and bring two children up as well it wasn't easy and that made such a difference in the quality of life.
It is the lazy people of this world that cause the outrage. Those like we have mentioned that have all the children and don't do any work. They get it all on a plate and do nothing to earn it. Those are the people the Government should be targeting not the sick and incapacitated.
Quite agree I know a few scroungers that think its all owed to them and never done a stroke in their lives.
I know someone who is on benefits and fits kitchens and knocks down walls and does electrics etc. etc. whilst claiming benefits. He doesn't realise we all know he's on them. I must admit he does limp when he thinks he is being watched - greedy moran - it's folks like that who give benefits a bad name.
I am sure that if I was to know of someone receiving benifits that shouldn't be I would put a stop to it. I have worked my whole life since leaving school, paid my taxes every month for what, to let them take what others may need? I think not!
I have no idea what it is like to survive on benefits and for those who have no choice, I sympathise, but there must be a time when enough is enough. A cap on the amount received is not only a good idea, but a much needed solution to an ever increasing burden on state funds.
It will also show that more care is needed in family planning.
This discussion could get very political, very quickly so I will end there lest I bore the pants of some!
I agree Sabre - it's not the people who are genuinely claiming benefits, a lot of whom will be claiming IB like you seaspray. It is more the people who think they have a right not to work and be provided for by everyone else - not those who really can't work. However, there is always a way to 'beat' the system, as I personally know someone who claims IB as he is too ill to work, but manages to do a 'charity job' which involves walking miles to deliver leaflets (although he has bad knees and bad back), campaigning on the internet, taking the train to London for 'business' meetings etc.... Perhaps someone would like to explain how exactly he is unfit to work in paid employment?!?! Hmm.. thought not!
ATOS are a rubbish company - I didn't know about the payment for failing people's assessments, or whether that is really true or not, but my experience of them through work was not a good one either - their people skills are suitably lacking! and their medical knowledge depending on who you speak to!
One thing that did annoy me slightly seaspray was your comment "Take a look on www.benefitsandwork.com or .co.uk to get an idea of the real picture of what life is like on the dole, before you start to critcize what you don't really have a true idea of!" Think that was slightly presumptuous that all of us on the forum are not/have not been on benefits and have no idea what we are talking about.
ATOS operate on a KPI and KPT system which are Key Performance Indicators and Targets so try to knock people off just to meet these targets rather than fully looking at peoples health and welfare.
Because it is usually those who have not been on benefits ever, who are the quickest to critize
But that makes sense.
People who've never been on benefits have been lifelong contributers yet got nothing back for all the taxes paid.
No one begrudges state pensions or incapcity benefit, but we do begrudge paying healthy but lazy people to sit on their arses drinking special brew and playing xbox all day.
I can see this is a very poignant subject to one or two on the forum but when you have family not living on benefits who are on the bare bones of their arses trying to get by on a pittance it's very hard not to condemn those who are sucking every penny out of the system. I know people who are living on benefits and they manage very nicely thank you very much. I sit at the dentist waiting for treatment and see ones on benefit getting all their treatment free whilst myself an O.A.P. pays the full price. If I want to go to the gym I have to pay full price whilst those beside me on benefits are getting theirs at a fraction of the price. Is it any wonder then seaspray that some of us on this forum are sick and fed up of hearing about all those people getting lovely houses all paid for and living benefits too and others get nothing including those who have every right to be on them when they are ill or have a disability which I mentioned in my last posting. Like G-Man and Noddy we don't begrudge the sick and needy but we do begrudge the lazy buggers who live the lives of the rich with no input at all.
Oh excellent stuff Sabre, I'm with every sentiment you've just uttered!
G-Man, Sabre and Lillie, I feel exactly the same.
No-one lives the life of 'the rich' on benefits!
Seaspray, you seem to have the knack of reading things which have not been written.
Exactly who has suggested that people on benefits 'live the life of the rich'?
Benefits are not begrudged to the sick or needy but often go to the greedy and lazy in society which they access by telling lies and so flouting the system. These are the ones that should be targeted and not the disabled sick and infirm.
What yr missing the point of - is that the goverment doesnt care/has no distinction between what you deem as the 'deserving' and the 'undeserving'
And NOBODY can survive living on benefits!
Secondly perhaps as I originally pointed out - you should turn your attention to the big companies that are diddling the state out of a min of £40 million a year, let alone the amounts that the MP's took in buying second houses, plus 'other expenses'
Its all to easy to scapegoat and go for the easy target!
Your argument is either hyperbole or spurious as people on benefits aren't dying hence "nobody can survive living on benefits" is erroneous.
If you're trying to make an argument, try to use facts!
No, they just cant afford to heat, pay bills, or the luxury of enough food, clothes, shoes, buy any much needed goods like a fridge freezer, so instead go into big debt in an attempt to afford to do the above.
My point is that living on benefits as it is being protrayed, is not a lifestyle option that one can comfortably live on, without any regard to going out to work.
That is neither 'hyperbole' or 'spurious'.
I'm sorry, seaspray, but I have to agree with G-Man here. I know working people who manage to live and pay their bills on less than £500 a week.
They probably don't have two cars in the drive, a 50 inch telly, or two holidays a year, but their kids are fed and clothed and they live happy lives.
No, £500 a week is far too much to give away in benefits.
£26,000 after tax equates to over £32,000 before tax. The average household takes around £24,000 *before* tax meaning every family of average income would be better off on benefits.
It's insane. Other than in cases where someone can't work as they are incapacitated or looking after someone who is, benefits should be limited to a maximum of 80% of the post-tax minimum income (based on 40 hours a week for 48 weeks a year) to encourage people to find work or become self employed.
It may seem harsh, but it's fair.
Until you are on benefits... then I wonder if you will still think of it as "harsh but fair"
You have yet to make a cogent argument as to why people on benefits should get £500 a week.
I would just like to point out that I have actually been 'on benefits', and I still think that £500 per week is ridiculous. I wasn't entitled to housing benefit - why not I hear you ask?!? Oh that's right..... cos I had worked my arse off to get a deposit together to be able to get a mortgage ad a house. As a family we actually contemplated selling the house and moving into rented accommodation, as we would then have been entitled to the housing benefit (and other benfits!) and had far less outgoings and way more income.
So perhaps I am more than experienced to comment on how unfair the system is, and that £500 per week is more than adequate to live off, even if you have to pay your own rent, bills etc... Perhaps people who can't afford to live off this amount need to get a smaller house, go on holiday less, buy Tesco Value instead of Marks & Spencer finest!!
Sorry if I seem rude, but I will quite happily sit here, spend time with my son and do absolutely bugger all to deserve the capped £500 per week.
However, that is not the sort of person I am, and I will teach him that he will be a better person for making the effort and working for the things he wants - not having them all handed to him on a £500+ per week platter.
Well said yummymummy..so many people work their socks off and don't get that much! A fair few of my children's friends have parents who don't work - and guess who has the latest phone, xbox, ipad etc?? Not mine, that's for sure!
Gordon Brown ( and Tony bliar) decided that to stay in power, they would make as many ppl dependant on "benefits" as they possibly could. So multi millionaires are paid winter fuel benefit. Also they get paid child benefits. We got that when I was on £75k back in the nineties - we regarded getting a benefit payment as a sick joke. Gordon Browns master plan was to make as many ppl benefit dependant as he could - and thats why the immigration floodgates were opened. The immigrants would flood here, and most would become benefit dependant, and therefore vote for him. What a sad psychopath he was.
Oh how I love it that in times of bad economy its time to pick on the subject of 'the immigrants'.
Never a grumble when the enonomy is in fine fettle and they're cleaning office toilets at a pittance an hour, or working in the fields cutting celery when nobody who is English wants to do such a back breaking job - not a problem then!
And pray tell how is it the floodgates of immigration were opened simply so that they could become on 'dependent' on benefits.
There are many originally non uk residents, who have come over here and worked their tails off, contributed greatly to British society, and made it a far more interesting place to live in.
You are right, but the previous government (Bliar, Brown), wanted to make as many ppl benefit dependant as they could - on the basis they would vote for them. That's why we had mass unregulated migration - they get here, and they qualify for benefits, and because of that, they vote for labour. Severely cynical power hungry Bliar and even worse Brown actively promoted "benefit dependancy" as a way of staying in power. Gordon Brown is a severely psycopathetic individual. I feel pity for his wife.
I love yr skewed logic!
Perhaps seaspray you are actually one of the people who feel that they are entitled to more benefits than they receive?
You have still yet to put forward any points as to why £500 per week is not enough.
I don't think people disagree with your comment about companies not paying tax when they should be, but that does still not solve the issue of people claiming a LOT of benefits when they could be working rather than sitting about all day with taxpayers footing the bill.
Perhaps you would also like to explain to me why people who are claiming unemployment benefits, and other benefits, can get heavily reduced gym membership at the council leisure centre, but I should have to pay full price (which I can't afford with my low income)? Why can people on benefits AFFORD the gym membership in the first place, if as you suggest, they can't afford food, heating, electricity etc.... It's not really a necessity is it?!?!
Perhaps you live in a very expensive area seaspray to think that no-one can live off £500 per week benefits comfortably.
Bloody well-said, yummy!
I can't believe anyone needs that much!! I've four children and have to survive on a lot less!
How do you think us O.A.Ps manage then on the pittance we are paid out for and which we have earned during our year's at work. No expensive luxuries for us but we manage to spread the money by making our own soups and cheaper meals seaspray.
I dont make comment on whether any family can live comfortably or not on £500 a week until I have from BOTH sides of the argument, all the facts in front of me - then I can make a BALANCED judgement.
I do however make a comment on the prejudice and what is factually incorrect - whipped up by both the government and the press - that is shown to anyone on the dole, ie they're all lazy, they dont want to work, they're all living a rich lifestyle (utterly ludicrous) they're pariahs, and oh the racism and xenophobia that has also been openly expressed on here, and which I find both deeply offensive and despairing.
Despairing because nobody seems to think for themselves above and beyond going for the easiest and lowest common denominator, the 'puppy to kick' target such as those who are unemployed - despite the fact of big time companies getting away with not paying billions in tax, the councils who have wasted money on pointless consultations when all that was needed was common sense, the banks who after screwing up this economy, being paid millions in TAXPAYER'S MONEY by the government, and then paying out HUGE bonuses to themselves, the MP's who took thousands upon thousands in taxpayers money - YOUR MONEY - that you pay through working hard, to spend on such things as buying a second house or a duck pond etc etc.
These are the TRUE abusers of the system, of taking YOUR money, of truely living a rich lifestyle off YOUR hard earned money, while being classed (ironically enough) of being the 'working' kind - so not pariahs etc at all!
And only 1 or 2 have ever been brought to justice over it!!!
Yet if anyone on the benefits system did what say the MP's had done, they would be in jail now and 'tarred and feathered' for being the parasites on society that they are now being portrayed to be.
Just as the same way single mothers were being portrayed, especially during the previous Tory government(s)
Or that its the 'filthy foreigner' that is at the root cause of all our ills, that they're also equally lazy, only here to suck dry our benefits system or STEAL all our jobs; jobs that no English person would do because the pay is so low, and a country that effectively would not be able to properly function without them - ie the NHS - as many nurses and consultants have gone abroad to earn a greater wage packet.
It is all to easy to, and quickly at that, pick a scapegoat to take out your ire and feelings of frustration at the inequality of things; I too could do that at other unemployed people since due to a recent government ruling, I cant even get a crisis LOAN to purchase for eg a much needed washing machine due to being on Incapacity benefit, while those who have either a mix of IB and income support or soley any other benefit then IB, can still do so.
The same applies for if you are rehoused and have absolutely NOTHING, or need prescriptions, eye tests/glasses, council tax etc.
Or that a single person can no longer has the right to automatically get rehoused if they become homeless, whereas an asylum seeker can get some help.
My wrath goes out towards the government and the unequal way they have set up a system which is unfair,
I despair that despite what happened in the 2nd world war, where again the German economy was bad so a particular section of society was picked on as being the cause of all the ills of that time period, namely anyone Jewish, we still have seemed not to have learnt and yet again are on the same narrow treadmill of thought of 'them foreigners' being all at fault.
Now Yummymummy, if by any chance you are a single mother then are you aware that there are many organisations out there to help single parents such as Gingerbread, and if you join for instance Youth hostel organisation (no age limit) as a single parent you can get loads of discounts to many events and organisations, and be able to stay in hostels with your child, abroad for not a lot of money at all.
There are also many charities that can help you out (single mother or not) such as a charity that pays for you to have a holiday, and I'm more then happy to research these out for you and send on the details to you, if you so wish.
As for having a feeling of 'entitlement' to receive more benefit money then I'm getting, is neither here or there, as it is a simple fact that I am not getting enough to live on, as otherwise it wouldn't be such a constant struggle where even food is really a luxury, and debt a constant 'companion'.
With regard to 'going to the gym', as someone else pointed out on here, you can go for a walk, hire out or buy a keep fit dvd (videos are even cheaper) and use freecyle to get yr own gym equipment and then do your exercises in the comfort of your own home, or find or even put together a group of women who will do keep fit classes for free with you in the park, as they do here in London.
One doesn't need to go to an expensive gym to get fit!
I am not a single mother - but I actually would be much better off if I was.
One of my friends also went to the 'impartial' Citizens advice Bureau to get a better off calculation as she wished t return to work - and the outcome - she was better off if her and her partner had another baby and she stayed at home with the children. That is actual fact seaspray, which is what you were wanting - better off on benefits!
Gosh, i thought my posts were long! Seaspray i must say yummymummy has never expresssed or asked for help and i certainly didn't get that from her posts! What yummmymummy and i have said previously is that we would be better off on benefits if £500 is given a week but we choose not to as we would bring our children up to work its our morals and way of life for us!! In saying that we are not putting anyone down who is genuinely on benefits for disability! It must be difficult in your situation and in somewhat a bit paranoid that people look down on you when they are not! We do know there is a lot of folk that to put it blunty are at it when they are fit enough for work but decide not to!
£500 a week tax free on benefits? I'd be better off that's for sure, but pride wouldn't let me do that when there are jobs available. I'd much rather my children grew up with a good work ethic, what sort of example would I be giving if I was able to work and chose not to?? Too many people are prepared to claim benefits rather than take available jobs. I do completely sympathise with those genuinely on disability benefit, and don't resent them a penny.
Well said girls.
Yet again, seaspray, I can only say you seem to have a knack of reading things which have not been written.
I have re-read this whole thread and I see no racist remarks in general and no references to 'filthy foreigners' in particular. It also seems to me that your comment about assylum seekers being entitled to housing is in direct contradiction of this previous remark.
Where is this racism and xenophobia that you state has been openly expressed in this tolerant and friendly Forum?
I'm sorry you feel so bitter, and I hope you get better soon. By the way, before you accuse me of being a rich bastard, I'm a pensioner with a disabled husband.
Oh, and you might want to brush up on your history of WWII
I've just read a few older posts on this thread. Here is one of yours, Seaspray. I quote - 'Its always easy to attack and scapegoat those who are vulnerable in times of economic downturn - rather like all them bloody foreigners coming over here to take out jobs!
Funny theres never a mention of that when the econmony is good'
Other than being a troll, you don't seem to have a point of view. One minute we're all a load of racist bigots, the next minute these bloody foreigners are coming here and taking our jobs.
Could I politely suggest you bugger off?
Yummymummy, if you had properly read my posts, you would see that I am NOT better off on benefits - but you are not interested in digesting this fact.
Do you think it's time to put this posting to bed now seaspray? You seem to be on yummymummy's back on this one and I'm sure she wishes you no harm and you both have given your views on the subject as have many more. This isn't war and everybody has their own views so please before war commences please let it go peacefully now. Thank you
Thank you Sabre :)
Seaspray, in your post you put "I dont make comment on whether any family can live comfortably or not on £500 a week until I have from BOTH sides of the argument, all the facts in front of me - then I can make a BALANCED judgement."
A few people, not just myself, have given information that it is perfectly possible to live off £500 per week - and that we would be better off on benefits. I don't think anyone has said that YOU would/would not be be better off on benefits, but we have asked for some justification as to why you feel that £500 per week benefits is not enough - which you have given us no answers.
If you had actually read other's posts, you would see that no-one on here has disagreed that there are some people who are genuinely claiming benefits, and we do not begrudge those people their benefits, but £500 per week is adequate for a suitable standard of living, as it more than a lot of people receive by working.
As I had previously stated, I have claimed benefits, and yes, it was difficult, mainly due to the fact that I had a mortgage and a partner I was not entitled to very much. However, if I had not had a partner I would have received very much more, and even more had I been in rented accommodation. So I have seen it from both sides.
Your personal claim for IB I have not commented on, as I do not know very much about the IB benefit. And you have never told us any information as to why/how much less-off you are/would be on benefits - and if this relates to what you receive currently, or to the aforementioned £500 per week?
I have, however, worked in a jobcentre for almost 2 years, and in that time I saw a lot of people, probably in equal parts, of those who wanted to work and those who were coming up with every excuse under the sun not to. for example -
Why didn't you apply for that job that is exactly what you said you wanted to do? Cos I would have had to get 2 buses to work.
Why didn't you turn up for your interview? Cos I had to take the cat to the vet.
How did filling in the application form go? I didn't fill it in cos I was too busy
Etc... etc... etc...
So I have seen a lot of people with no interest in getting a job. If people really wanted to work they would be prepared to get 2 buses!
My partner used to walk to the bus stop, get the bus into town, walk to the train station, get the train, walk to another train station, get another train, walk to the bus stop, get a bus, and then still had a 15 minute walk to work after all that!! And he started work at 8am or finished at 10pm. Whilst he was doing that, I was 7 months pregnant and then we had a little newborn baby to care for. So there is NO excuse to not be able to get 2 buses to get a job.
It is not about finding a scapegoat, whether that eb the unemployed, the sick, foreigners etc... It is simply about the issues that we know there are many people from all walks of live claiming benefits that they should not really be entitled to, which in the end costs all of us a lot of money. This is why we were discussing a cap of benefits in the first place - not scrapping benefits for those who genuinely need them.
But my view still stands, that £500 per week is adequate for anyone.
Hi Seaspray .....
I must say you do like to get intensive in your posts on here but perhaps it's not the best place to be intrusive or resentful towards other people's opinions in the way that you do. And I say that with every good intention as we have some great people on this forum who are clearly reacting unfavourably to what you have to say.
Reading between the lines, you clearly have a tough situation and I am sure that we would all want our hearts to go out to you if we knew the depth of the difficulties that you face and the somtimes insurmountable problems that they bring.
I work for local government as an outside officer and I am trained to identify the vulnerability of people that I visit or come across. I have to apply 'best practice' in what I do and that involves offering people advice, suggesting courses of action and in most cases researching on their behalf. The downside of that is that it can be draining absorbing other people's 'negative energies' and I try and have adequate 'downtime' to deal with it. It is far from easy though.
The point I am making is that it is far easier to communicate and respond efficiently if it happens in a relaxed, pleasant and respectful way. That is the 100% ethos of this forum.
We will of course only ever 'scratch the surface' on here but even that can be so rewarding when it points us in the right direction. And a lot of people get tremendous enjoyment from being on here without trying to put the world to rights on a daily basis.
And having said all of that, we of course welcome you into out fold!
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